We all have these moments of hate towards our body. As much as I really would love the amount of confidence that Connor Mcregor has in his down talk game, towards the other fighter, I would love that same game, but with my body.
Not to be so hard on myself, I have come along way. I am committed to my fitness. Currently, I am involved in a competitor class and I feel so much stronger, then the usual hour of just weight lifting and metcons.
I shy away from mirrors. I lack confidence, hard. Not to feel sorry for myself, but I always feel like the ugliest, most fat girl in the room. Luckily, I have the sweetest husband in the world, to always build me up, when I feel low.
I think of Connor as an example of confidence, because he really does not give two shits of what people think about him. He knows what his purpose is, and he fights for that purpose, literally.
As the new year is approaching I have a lot of insight of who I want to be, what I want to change and not because the New Year is approaching. Like Connor Mcregor, I too would like to have confidence in myself. Confidence in my choices, and being less critical. I think we all have to come to terms of looking in the mirror, and fighting for who we want to be, despite the critics.
One thing that always bothered me growing up and even in my adult life, is when family members will hold a grudge, or look in the past. It has such an affect on one's every day choices. As for my method, I always tell them, why are you looking back, I am not going back, I am currently focusing on now, and what we can do in the future. There is no purpose going back. We can't change our past, but we can act in the present and change our future.
When you look in the mirror, do you like yourself? Are you confident in your choices? If so, then I highly suggest doing some deep thinking, or some "me time" to figure it out.
Don't be afraid to make changes, or not like who you are in this current moment. Understand that there are a million opinions in this world, and the only opinion we need to be concerned with ourselves is ours.
When we do that, we can become who we need to and want to become, keep going and don't ever give up on your journey, because as long looking in the mirror is getting easier then you know you are doing something right.
What The Fuck,
Lauren Hadley
Not to be so hard on myself, I have come along way. I am committed to my fitness. Currently, I am involved in a competitor class and I feel so much stronger, then the usual hour of just weight lifting and metcons.
I shy away from mirrors. I lack confidence, hard. Not to feel sorry for myself, but I always feel like the ugliest, most fat girl in the room. Luckily, I have the sweetest husband in the world, to always build me up, when I feel low.
I think of Connor as an example of confidence, because he really does not give two shits of what people think about him. He knows what his purpose is, and he fights for that purpose, literally.
As the new year is approaching I have a lot of insight of who I want to be, what I want to change and not because the New Year is approaching. Like Connor Mcregor, I too would like to have confidence in myself. Confidence in my choices, and being less critical. I think we all have to come to terms of looking in the mirror, and fighting for who we want to be, despite the critics.
One thing that always bothered me growing up and even in my adult life, is when family members will hold a grudge, or look in the past. It has such an affect on one's every day choices. As for my method, I always tell them, why are you looking back, I am not going back, I am currently focusing on now, and what we can do in the future. There is no purpose going back. We can't change our past, but we can act in the present and change our future.
When you look in the mirror, do you like yourself? Are you confident in your choices? If so, then I highly suggest doing some deep thinking, or some "me time" to figure it out.
Don't be afraid to make changes, or not like who you are in this current moment. Understand that there are a million opinions in this world, and the only opinion we need to be concerned with ourselves is ours.
When we do that, we can become who we need to and want to become, keep going and don't ever give up on your journey, because as long looking in the mirror is getting easier then you know you are doing something right.
What The Fuck,
Lauren Hadley
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